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How to Be More Honest With Yourself

Lisa Sealey
3 min readSep 10, 2021
Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash

Becoming the best version of yourself requires radical honesty. The ability to accept who you are, even the bad, and the ability to recognize your faults — even if they are embarrassing or don’t feel good — is critical. Being honest with yourself is the secret to achieving your goals and living your fullest and best life.

Not sure how to accomplish this? Here are some strategies that may help:

Be Accountable for Your Mistakes
It will be painful, but the first step to being honest with yourself is admitting when you are wrong. It feels so much better to make up excuses or put the blame on someone else; however, it never leads to anything good. Relationships and careers are often sacrificed because people can’t admit when they are wrong. And if they can’t admit they’re wrong, they will never change or do what needs to be done to be successful in their relationships or their lives.

Don’t Hold Back Thoughts or Emotions
It takes practice, but one of the most critical steps in life is to share your thoughts and reasonable emotions. Emotions are often seen as unfavorable. However, emotions reveal your true self. This is why they are essential. But to appreciate their actual value, you need to truly understand them. Feel them and question why they are there. Take the time to figure out why you’re having the…

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Lisa Sealey
Lisa Sealey

Written by Lisa Sealey

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